The Truth About Family Dinners

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Earlier this year I happened upon an article by a respected family psychologist and parenting expert.  In it, he provided lots of ideas on how parents could improve their family life, a number of which I completely agreed with.  But then I got to his recommendation about family dinners.  He suggested that families today should gather around the dinner table six nights a week.  Six nights?  Out of ... read more

Rocket Flipping 101

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Everyday when my first grader comes home from school, she proudly announces that she didn’t get her rocket flipped.  Good news right?  I guess, although it took me a while to figure out what on earth she was talking about. You see, her teacher has a great discipline plan that I have half a mind to implement in my own house.  All the kids in the class have a rocket with their name on it.  Their ... read more

Fall Parenting Workshops

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This fall I'm offering small group parenting workshops for the Auburn-Opelika community at Transformations Life Center.  Transformations offers a perfect setting for groups of people and professional facilitators to come together and support, educate, and help one another through life’s challenges in a relaxed and casual environment. Each workshop costs $50 and lasts for two hours, but if you ... read more

How Long Is Too Long For Time-Out?

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Dear Polly, My four year old daughter was recently put in time-out at day camp for 20 minutes.  How long is too long and what is the correct way of doing this? You are right to be concerned!  Twenty minutes is a long time to be in time-out for a 4 year old.  Generally, the length of time-out in minutes should be equal to the age of the child in years.  So, your 4 year old should spend about 4 ... read more

Potty Training In Three Days? Not!

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Recently I was asked by a colleague to lead a parenting workshop on how to potty train your child in three days.  After I picked myself up off the floor laughing, I told her that I probably wasn’t the best instructor for that course.  You see, of my four kids not a one of them was potty trained in three days.  Not even close. That got me thinking.  What kind of child psychologist am I if I can’t ... read more